PSALM 6:2
Have compassion on me, Lord, for I am weak. Heal me, Lord, for my bones are in agony. Why do kids bully other kids? Why do they sometimes go to that extreme to hurt others or to take something away from them. Could it be that they are insecure and maybe gets bullied at home. Could it be that parents are abusive toward the kids or abusive toward each other and kids think it is right to abuse others. Could it be that they seeking authority over others making them feel stronger and in control as they are the ones that are weak and are in need of love and care. Could it be that they are lonely and depressed or they don't have what other kids have and the only way to getting it is by bullying others and take their stuff away from them. Could it be that some bullies think that they think they are better than others. Could it be that they are bullied by other siblings or other children and feel angry and the only way they can get rid of their anger is by taking it out on other children. Could it be that they were/are traumatised at a very young age by parents or family members or even a stranger. Could it be that their parents maybe separated and they feel angered as they feel they are the cause of it all and they hate the new edition to the family and do not want to give them a change to prove themselves. Could it be a teacher abusing a child mentally, physically, emotionally. No one really knows people can assume. Why do kids get bullied no one knows the truth. When they don't want to talk about it due to fear for the people that do bully them. I was bullied as a child due to a accident with my eye and were blind from the age of three. My eldest daughter always got bullied in primary and high school. In Grade 10 she decided to stand up for herself and told them all what she thinks of them, today all those kids want to be her friend on Social Media. My younger daughter got bullied because she is quit and everyone just trample all over her, she would sometimes come home and take it out on her family, but she knows that her parents, siblings and God is always there for her. Where as my son do not let anyone one bully him, from a very young age he suffers from eczema. He just have that confident attitude that say " I am me unique in my own way" Taking your own life is not a answer, believe me that is not what God want All countries have helplines that can assist you, there is always a friendly voice on the other side. Remember we have a Heavenly Father that can always assist us in any situation
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1 Corinthian 13:4
Love is not jealous. Did you ever had that moment that you were jealous of someone because they always have money at school, or they have a cool phone. when it is civvies at school they dress up in the name brand clothes and you don't want to go to school in civvies of fear they going to make fun of you because your clothes were bought at a local store and then you rather go to school in your school clothes. When anyone ask you ' Didn't you know it was civvies today?' you will just pull up your shoulders and lie and say 'I forgot about it' even if you know what the truth is. Kids and your friends get picked up in the grand vehicles and when they ask you how you getting home you will say "Still waiting for my parents' because you are embarresed of the vehicle you are driving in and duck down if you go past your friends out of fear of them making fun of you. No good ever comes out of jealousy. Don't your friends celebrate with you when you do well in school or you achieved something outside school. Being jealous of some one else's stuff show that you are thinking mostly about yourself, you are selfcentered. You begin by the need to be better than the next person and be successful and sometimes that desire gets out of control and can lead to ugly things. Spreading rumors of the people you are jealous of and try to let other people not to be friends with them anymore. A person who conquers his jealousy is able to celebrate with other people when they get new things and compliment them if they look good in it or are happy when they show you something new they have. I always say, your clothes might be old but as long as it doesn't have massive holes in them and they are clean they are still wearable. God's desire for you is to love the people around you with all your heart. So ask God to set your heart free from the jealousy that controls you. CHECK UP On a scale of 1 to 5 how jealous are you. 1= never 2= not very often 3= sometimes 4= most of the time 5= always I am thankful for what I've been given. 1 2 3 4 5' I am content with the opportunities and circumstances God has given me. 1 2 3 4 5 I confess my feelings of jealousy to God when I feel them creeping into my heart. 1 2 3 4 5 KEY: mostly 1's - you are green with jealousy, start working on your issues. mostly 2's - yikes you care more about yourself than others mostly 3's - you can do better mostly 4's - you are doing well but there is room for improvement mostly 5's - Great your are a selfless friend who celebrate with others. Romans 12.9
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AuthorHallo my name is Thessa I am the mother of three beautiful teenagers. I started this blog as I see so many children and people suffers everyday. School, home, the outside world. Archives
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