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Back after a long absence. Difficult times, hardships but that is all behind us. We must move on. My beautiful children is no longer children. They become beautiful adults each with their own lives, their own jobs and priorities. Some days I still find it difficult to accept that the two girls are no longer in the household. My son is still here, sometimes too quite according to me. Should he voice his opinion about things going wrong or unhappiness, all war breaks out. My husband keeps quite, me on the other hand voice my opinion too often that sometimes gets me in alot of trouble, expecially where I am working now. I feel it is my right to know things but some people and family disagree. We all sometimes feel lost and want to belong somewhere. We all want a place in the sun. Doesn't matter if it is in family, friends or worklife, but unfortunately you always get people in life that don't want to give you sunshine. They want to take it from everyone and keep it for themselves. They don't want people to succeed. To be happy is a sin in their eyes. They want to treat you as a slave and steal your joy. Do not let anyone steal your joy from you. Do not let anyone get you under, they are not worth it at the end of the day. Do not let loosers drag you down or stoop to their level as that is what they want. Do not believe if others insult you, or tell you, you can't do it. If we believe we can move mountains we will move mountains. Always stay positive or try at least to be positive. Stay strong in what you believe in your goals, your future. Work hard and you will reap the benefits. There is a reason why some people don't make it to your future.The word joy appears over 100 times in the Old Testament with fifteen different Hebrew words. For instance, there is simchah [sim-khaw’], which means joy, gladness, or mirth. It is derived from samach [saw-makh’], which means to rejoice. Simchah appears 93 times in the Old Testament with its first occurrence in Genesis 31:27. And samach occurs 150 times.
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How can your head be full of you,you wonder?
That is when you wonder about everything, when you have a hard time making decisions, when you feel confused and you might not hear anything God wants to tell you. When your head vibrates with the all the things you are wondering about, when you can't calm your thoughts to receive guidance from the Holy Spirit. You need to calm your mind and pray. When you pray you will be able to get the answers you are seeking. The Bible don't say if you ask in prayer wonder if you will get it no it says instead Whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you will receive it. Read Matthew 11:23-24 1 John 1:6
"If we say that we have fellowship with Him, and walk in darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth. What does the word hate or hatred mean in the dictionary: to dislike, detest, despise, revenge, detestation, abhorrence, intense, hostility, depriving from fear anger or injury. Why do people hate people so much. If you hate you cant say you love. how can you hate your neighbor or someone you don't even know. Why are we so quick to judge others or say bad things about people. Is it our way of humans to feel in control or to get people behind us to back us up in a situation. We are warned over and over in the bible how hatred and bitterness can destroy us. Hate is a heart issue and that someone who hates his brother is a murderer. 1 John 3:15 "Whoever hates his brother is a murderer and you know that no murderer has eternal life abiding in him." Hate is a assembly of evil doers Psalms 26:5 "I have hated the assembly of evildoers and will not sit with the wicked." Hate is part of falsehood Psalms 119:116 "Uphold me according to Your word, that I may live and do not let me be ashamed of my hope." The more we become like Christ and understand the love of God the more we will being to hate, hypocrisy, ungodliness and evil of the world. Maybe it is time that we all learn what the word love means and put the word hate out of our minds. The world will become a better place. Why do we envy what other people have all these things are earthly and will not be taken with us when we leave this word. We came in this world with nothing and will leave this world with nothing. Give a little bit of sunshine to the next person as the bible says that the Lord let the sun shine on the good and the evil. Your cover letter is like a handshake—it’s how you introduce yourself to employers when you apply for a job. Like a good handshake, you want your cover letter to be strong, succinct, and make a great first impression.
This isn’t a part of the job application process you want to skimp on, either. A cover letter allows you to go into more detail than your resume allows, explain gaps in your employment history or your need for a career change, and make a case as to why you would be a great fit for the position. And a great cover letter can open the door to scoring an interview and, ultimately, landing a job. Make sure your first impression is a good and lasting one by avoiding these common mistakes below when writing your cover letter. 1. Overusing “I” Your cover letter is not your autobiography. The focus should be on how you meet an employer's needs, not on your life story. Avoid the perception of being self-centered by minimizing your use of the word "I," especially at the beginning of your sentences. 2. Using a weak opening When writing a cover letter, job seekers frequently struggle with the cover letter's opening. This difficulty often results in a feeble introduction lacking punch and failing to grab the reader's interest. Consider this example: · Weak: Please consider me for your sales representative opening. · Better: Your need for a top-performing sales representative is an excellent match to my three-year history as a top-ranked, multimillion-dollar producer. 3. Omitting your top selling points A cover letter is a sales letter that sells you as a candidate. Just like your resume, it should be compelling and give the main reasons you should be called for an interview. Winning cover letter tips include emphasizing your top accomplishments or creating subheadings culled from the job posting. For example: · Your ad specifies: Communication skills I offer: Five years of public speaking experience and an extensive background in executive-level report. · Your ad specifies: The need for a strong computer background I offer: Proficiency in all MS Office applications with additional expertise in website development and design. 4. Making it too long If your cover letter exceeds one page, you may be putting readers to sleep. A great cover letter is concise but compelling, and respects the reader's time. 5. Repeating your resume word for word Your cover letter shouldn't regurgitate what's on your resume. Reword your cover letter statements to avoid dulling your resume's impact. Consider using the letter to tell a brief story, such as "my toughest sale" or "my biggest technical challenge." 6. Being vague If you're replying to an advertised opening—as opposed to writing a cold cover letter—reference the specific job title in your cover letter. The person reading your letter may be reviewing hundreds of letters for dozens of different jobs. Make sure all of the content in your letter supports how you will meet the employer's specific needs. 7. Forgetting to customize If you're applying to a number of similar positions, chances are you're tweaking one letter and using it for multiple openings. That's fine, as long as you customize each letter. Don't forget to update the company, job and contact information—if Mr. Jones is addressed as Ms. Smith, he won't be impressed. 8. Ending on a passive note When possible, put your future in your own hands with a promise to follow up. Instead of asking readers to call you, try a statement like this: I will follow up with you in a few days to answer any preliminary questions you may have. In the meantime, you may reach me at (555) 555-5555. 9. Being rude Your cover letter should thank the reader for his or her time and consideration. 10. Forgetting to sign the letter It is proper business etiquette (and shows attention to detail) to sign your letter. Err on the side of formality, and if you need any help figuring out how to close your cover letter, consider these possible sign-offs. However, if you are sending an email cover letter and resume, a signature isn't necessary. Top ways to sabotage your interview follow-up From a hastily written thank-you email to social media snafus, these mistakes can weaken your chances of getting hired. Matthew 7:7
"Ask and it shall be given to you; seek and ye shall find; knock and it shall be opened unto you. How many times in your life didn't you hear that before. Believe and you will receive. How many times didn't you ask for something and didn't get what you wanted. Maybe from friends, family or your parents. Maybe you ask something from God and you didn't receive what you wanted. Jesus said after all we must believe. Do we believe and are negative about it. You must be positive about when you ask for things. you can attract negative and positive energy from the universe. If you are always negative you going to get negative reactions but when you are positive you going to get positive reactions. Visualize that you already received what you ask for. 2 Corinthians 4:18 says "Look not at he things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen; for the things which are seen are temporal; but the things which are not seen are eternal. We were given the Holy Spirit who is the power of God, who bring the word to pass in our life's. Speak words out in the power of faith. Speak words of positivity. Say to yourself in the morning. I believe and I will receive. I am tremendously successful. I have the favour of the Lord. Teenage years when faces are covered with spots, boys don't know what sound their voice will make the next time of turmoil.
Would you like to be 13 again? Probably not, this is a period of great change and upheaval. But it is not only teenagers that embarking on this voyage, parents are also entering a period that is often characterised by conflict, worry and despair. What makes teenagers years so tough? A period of physical change which can be scary. A growth spurt sees both sexes shooting up. Teens are prone to great sexual anxiety and guilt over their strange new desires which sometimes causes self doubt. It is a in between stage. They are no longer a child but not quite a adult. This can be frustrating. Teenagers are thinking about the future and might feel insecure about what lies ahead of them. How can I prevent my teen from becoming troubled? Good communication must be established with your children when they are still young. Be a role model. How you talk to strangers, your spouse, your husband. Children tend to pick up everything their parents are doing. Teach them moral and ethical values. Teach them to treat people the way they want to be treated. Inform them about their bodies, ensure them that this things do happen and reassure them that it is normal. Give them books on the subject. Discuss your values. Don't panic when your teen starts rejecting been accepted ways in your household wanting to break away from home it is all part of the natural process of maturation and separation. Support them Parents biggest job is to teach teens self-respect. If you criticise am at their behaviour not at them as a person. When they make the right choices tell them how proud you are of them. Why do teens misbehave? It is a way of getting attention. If your teen make you angry avoid immediate confrontation. Cool down and discuss it later. Teens want the family support they want you to say no as a safety net. Don't push your teen to hard or invade their privacy they might lie to you. Is your child under such stress to meet your high standards that thy fear punishment or disapproval Give up the control and let hem handle some responsibility or you will end up with teenagers who feel incompetent. How do you know when your teen is troubled? Changes in their eating and sleeping patterns, loss of appetite. Change of friends, not socialising at all or the time. Mood swings changes in the way they dress loss of interest in what was important before such as giving up something. neglected hygiene. a drop in school marks. Did you know? Substance abuse - tobacco - drugs and alcohol often starts in the teenage years. teen who drink often started by the age of fifteen. Don't nag This is a no-no rather make them feel that they are in charge of their lives. Draw up a chart of all the duties they have to do, once they are done let them tick if off that way they feel that they are in control and there might be less fighting in your household.
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Language's existed as long as mankind. Did you know the first ever language written was Egyptian hieroglyphics, Chinese and Greek is the oldest that exist today. We get sign languages for deaf people, brail for blind people. All countries have their own language and English that is spoken world wide. The alphabet consist of twenty six (26) letters. A - apple B - bat C - cat D - dog E - egg F - frog G -goat H - hat I igloo J - jug K - kite L - lamb M - man N - nose O - orange P - pen Q - queen R - rose S - sun T - tap U - umbrella V - van W - watch X -xylophone Y - yes Z - zoo ignorance (noun)
lack of knowledge, experience, information or education, the opposite of wisdom Hosea: 4:6 "My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge. Because you have rejected knowledge. I also reject you." Do we as humans reject the knowledge of wisdom wilfully that God has given us? Intentional ignorance about spiritual matters can lead to eternal destruction. We should be informed about sin and remain innocent of it. Ephesians 5:11 - 12. "Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them. it is shameful even to mention what the disobedient do in secret." We must know how our enemy function. Believers are encouraged to forgive each other. Ignorance of what evil is up to and the ignorance of the damage people do to each other by unforgiveness is dangerous to a person's spiritual health. God commands us to repent for our ignorance and seek Him with all our hearts. God will overlook all our wrongs, there is no adequate for sin. We must learn to take sin or ignorance seriously as God does. He punished the Israelites in the times of the Bible. He had laws in place which are still in place today but people do not adhere to them. God command us to repent from our ignorance and seek Him with all our hearts. He gives us opportunities to learn from our consequences so that we make better choices. He knows what each of us have been given and hold us responsible for what we do with it. We all commited sins in ignorance. The opposite of spiritual ignorance is wisdom. We are told to seek wisdom above all things. Every time the Bible commands us to listen or hear, God is giving us a change to trade ignorance for His wisdom. |
AuthorHallo my name is Thessa I am the mother of three beautiful teenagers. I started this blog as I see so many children and people suffers everyday. School, home, the outside world. Archives
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